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Unlike formal caregivers, who are paid to provide care, an informal caregiver is an unpaid individual who assumes the responsibility of assisting another person, typically an ailing loved one, with their daily life and medical needs. Serving as a mesothelioma caregiver can quickly become an overwhelming and isolating task, especially if you don’t have previous caregiving experience. During this time, caring for yourself becomes as important as caring for your loved one.

Did you know? In the last 12 months, 34 million Americans have provided unpaid care to an adult age 50 or older.

Caring for Someone With Mesothelioma

Becoming a primary caregiver for someone with mesothelioma can be time-consuming and emotionally draining. The average family caretaker spends approximately 25 hours a week providing care. You will inherit responsibilities and decisions you probably never anticipated, including end-of-life preparations, hospice care, and power of attorney. If your loved one elects to discontinue treatment or opts for a DNR order (do not resuscitate), you will likely inherit the responsibility for ensuring the administrative aspects are handled. 

Below is a list of tasks you can expect to take on when serving as a mesothelioma caregiver.  

  • Assisting with daily activities, such as feeding, bathing, and housekeeping
  • Transporting the patient to and from medical appointments
  • Administering and tracking medication
  • Monitoring and reporting any changes in overall health
  • Working with the cancer care team to ensure you understand all at-home medical duties
  • Managing financial, insurance, and legal matters

In some cases, taking care of a loved one who is struggling with a terminal illness requires more time than your normal life can permit. The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) can help if you need to take a temporary leave of absence from work.

Caring for Yourself

It’s crucial to take time for yourself when caring for someone else. You may feel guilty or selfish, but without caring for yourself, you run the risk of burnout and exhaustion. Eventually, this can hinder the quality of care you are able to provide to your loved one.
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8 ways mesothelioma caregivers can care for themselves:

  1. Take breaks when you feel overwhelmed.
  2. Make sure to stay nourished. Eat well, exercise, and get enough sleep.
  3. Talk to a counselor.
  4. Join a caregiver support group.
  5. Take time for things you enjoy.
  6. Stay organized.
  7. Educate yourself about mesothelioma and caregiving.
  8. Ask for help — don’t be afraid to seek support when you need it!

It’s OK to Grieve

When serving as a caregiver to a loved one with mesothelioma, the grieving process often starts before the person dies. Sometimes called anticipatory grief, caregivers experience a sense of loss of the person’s former self. It is difficult to watch someone you love lose their independence and ability to take care of themselves, especially when end-of-life arrangements are in the back of your mind. Financial and legal stressors can make the task all the more challenging.

Depression, guilt, and anger are all understandable feelings to experience as a caretaker. You may feel like you’re losing your own sense of freedom, or experience an inner struggle as you try to adapt to the new relationship you have with your loved one. Keeping a journal, talking to a friend or counselor, and getting involved with support groups can all help to alleviate the stress and hopelessness you may feel during this hard time.

Support for Mesothelioma Caregivers

There are many organizations that provide empowerment and support to mesothelioma caregivers. Getting involved can help you feel less isolated, since you’ll be joining a community of people who understand what you’re going through and who can offer relevant feedback and suggestions for the challenges you are facing. Support groups are often available in-person or online.

Mesothelioma caregiver support groups and resources:

Hospitals, social workers, and religious organizations may be able to provide more information on local or online support groups. Facebook is another online community well-suited for mesothelioma caregivers seeking remote support.

The Mesothelioma Hub team is here to serve and empower you as a mesothelioma caretaker. Contact us today for additional resources and support. 

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